2012年7月23日星期一

Family - Friends And Mentors Intentionally Loving You

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Just say the word family out loud. I'll bet that one word conjures up all kinds of images in your head.

Raise your hand if you think there is some kind of dysfunction in your family. Statistics state that dysfunction is the new norm these days. Do you know someone in your family sure to cause a ruckus at a wedding,Christian Louboutin brevets relika 140mm gris chaussuresLivraison gratuite pour vous, get too drunk at a reunion or tell everyone off at a funeral?

I'm sitting here thinking about what my family means to me and believe me we can be just as strange as the next. My definition has changed over the years as I most certainly have. Now,Nner MBT Sini sheos Schwarz / Grau, I define family as Friends And Mentors Intentionally Loving You.

Life experiences have taught me to widen my radius of folks to include in my family,Mbt Fanaka GTX Schokolade Schuhe, people to laugh,Nike Air Max 90 Hvid Neon Turkis Rave Pink, cry and share my life with. Having grown up with a narrow limited view from my community,Dame Air Force 1 Low Easter Egg Edition Purple, as I began to travel the world I quickly realized how lonely life would be if I did not let others in. Today my family includes all races and nationalities of people.

How can you improve relationships with members of your family? Simply stop expecting or hoping they will become what they are not and love them anyway.

My sister,Nike Free 5.0 V5 Sko Grå Sort, as hard as I try,Nike Hyperdunk, will not call me more than once or twice a year usually for my birthday and she never writes. I used to get hurt,Nike 6.0 Zoom Leshot LR (Grøn Abyss / hvid-Gum Medium Brown) Ska, angry, frustrated until I learned not to take it so personally. Now I have added a close friend to my family who likes to remember and call me for all the small special occasions in my life. This allows me to maintain a good relationship with my sister which is not centered around resentment. I get the chance to love and learn from both of them.

If your family doesn't seem to be all that they can be. Let go of that perfect picture in your mind. Stop holding others accountable for your happiness. Start adding good friends and safe mentors who help fill in the gaps for you.

In this way you will attract support,Christian Louboutin plates-formes, you will attract Friends And Mentors who will Intentionally Love You.

Would you like to learn exciting ways to build new and repair old bridges in your relationships? Why not start by remembering those you care about with a simple greeting card.

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